Appreciation of late Sriyan Jayasekera

It is no exaggeration that he was the cornerstone of our group, shaping and nurturing our bonds of friendship with a dedication and commitment that few could match

The passing away of Sriyan Jayasekera is a profound loss for the Thomian Freshman of ‘59 (the batch that joined S. Thomas’ College Mt. Lavinia from Forms 1A and 1B in 1959). 

It is no exaggeration to say that he was the cornerstone of our group, shaping and nurturing our bonds of friendship with a dedication and commitment that few could match. The early meetings we had were all due to his tireless efforts to locate our batchmates across the country and worldwide. Thanks to this loyal stalwart he kept our Thomian community ‘alive and vibrant’, and without his sturdy efforts we might not exist as the close-knit group we are today, with Dr. Nalin Jayasuriya taking over the leadership of our batch.

Sriyan was the epitome of a S. Thomas’ alumnus, in every way. His unwavering dedication to the college was not just remarkable, but inspiring. He not only raised funds for various college activities but also worked relentlessly to bring us all together in the pursuit of those objectives. His persuasive, and at times forceful, approach ensured that everyone participated in some way. Sriyan never accepted “no” for an answer and once involved, he made sure that each of us felt welcomed and valued.

While at S. Thomas’ College, Sriyan captained the under 14 Cricket B team and was in the senior Sinhala debating team. He was Head Prefect of Wood House and a College Prefect in 1971. In 1972, Sriyan was appointed Head prefect. After leaving College, Sriyan never forsook his teachers. He involved the teachers in our group gatherings and treated them with admiration and respect just as we all did. Sriyan was a disciplined man and was a source of encouragement to our batch mates. He was a loving husband and grandfather.

We vividly recall the strong stances he took at our meetings on behalf of staff members of yesteryear who had moulded us in those early days. He persistently reached out to each of us for assistance to offer tangible appreciation of such staff members. Many of our teachers and staff have benefited from his relentless efforts.  

In the past year, as a few of us were weighed down by various health challenges, Sriyan remained a constant source of support even when his own health was failing. Despite our offers to assist him in any way possible, we found ourselves unable to do more than offer our love and concern.

Sriyan, your absence is deeply felt. We will miss your friendship, your love, and your unwavering commitment with loyalty. Each of us has been enriched by your presence, and we will carry your memory with us.

(K. Ravindran and Arun Bandaranaike representing Thomian Freshmen’59: Thomians Near and Far)